Woman Whose Life Inspired Podcast ‘Dirty John’ Reveals Frightening Reason She Says She Stayed In …

Woman Whose Life Inspired Podcast ‘Dirty John’ Reveals Frightening Reason She Says She Stayed In …


after being married to John for about a month or two I definitely started to see a lot of red flags as quickly as we had fallen in love it unraveled I learned that John was not a doctor Norah anta theologists but he was a nurse I also found out that he had spent time in prison and he had a drug problem heroin and prescription drugs not only had I found out that he had been in jail but that he had just gotten out a couple days before we met and a few days later went on a date when it came to John I was a hundred percent deceived with John I had no idea what to do I was stuck what was the first thing that you found out that was really alarming to you well the first thing I think I went to the mailbox and there was this letter and it was from an inmate at Theo Lacey and I opened it and he ran up and grabbed it out of my hand as pop as fast as he could it was to him it was to him yeah and he said that’s fraud and I said okay but what’s this all about and I was starting to see things were starting to unravel a different person slowly evolving and that’s when I knew I had made a huge mistake you knew he lied about a lot so why were you still staying once it started to unravel why we got professional help and asked what should I do they told me what this what he was doing is called coercive control and you don’t just walk away because that’s when you become in major danger and so I had I had a forensic psychiatrist working with me I had a private investigator working with me and they were showing me the steps of preparing myself to leave at one point so obviously I had to change passwords I had to move money around I literally at one point when I felt it was safe to leave or at least I could deal with it anymore cuz he saw what was happening I left and I had a dark wig I moved out of my place started living in hotels I would rent rental cars under my assistants name I couldn’t go to work it’s amazing that you have to actually go on the run in your life oh yeah my wife Robin is one of the most active ambassadors for domestic violence in America just returned from Capitol Hill where she testified before a joint committee and Robin talked about the separation assault that that there was referring to here because that is a very dangerous time right yes that is the one of the most dangerous times when you’re trying to exit a very dangerous relationship and you seem to be given very important information because it is a time of preparation prepare to leave not just walk out because that’s when the abuser becomes very aggressive they feel they’ve lost control and they’ll do anything to find you and when they do a large percentage of the time we’re going to say over 90 percent of the time it ends in death because they want to continue to have control and they will until they feel that they have ended your life so I’m happy to hear that you were given the information to prepare for that especially when there are young children involved you always want to have birth certificates you want to have any money that you can start saving you want to have their favorite toys you want to have everything you can to make a clean exit and make it at a time when it is the safest and a place to go and on our aspire app it tells all of that information when you go to win Georgia smile org we also list all of the information for preparing the safest time to exit a dangerous relationship I’m happy that you got out of there

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