What Islam really says about women | Alaa Murabit

What Islam really says about women | Alaa Murabit

So on my way here, the passenger next to me and I
had a very interesting conversation during my flight. He told me, “It seems like
the United States has run out of jobs, because they’re just making some up: cat psychologist, dog whisperer,
tornado chaser.” A couple of seconds later, he asked me, “So what do you do?” And I was like, “Peacebuilder?” (Laughter) Every day, I work to amplify
the voices of women and to highlight their experiences and their participation in peace
processes and conflict resolution, and because of my work, I recognize that the only way to ensure
the full participation of women globally is by reclaiming religion. Now, this matter is vitally
important to me. As a young Muslim woman,
I am very proud of my faith. It gives me the strength and conviction
to do my work every day. It’s the reason I can be here
in front of you. But I can’t overlook the damage that has
been done in the name of religion, not just my own, but all
of the world’s major faiths. The misrepresentation and misuse
and manipulation of religious scripture has influenced our social
and cultural norms, our laws, our daily lives, to a point where we sometimes
don’t recognize it. My parents moved from Libya,
North Africa, to Canada in the early 1980s, and I am the middle child of 11 children. Yes, 11. But growing up, I saw my parents, both religiously devout
and spiritual people, pray and praise God for their blessings, namely me of course, but among others.
(Laughter) They were kind and funny and patient, limitlessly patient, the kind of patience
that having 11 kids forces you to have. And they were fair. I was never subjected to religion
through a cultural lens. I was treated the same, the same was expected of me. I was never taught that God
judged differently based on gender. And my parents’ understanding of God
as a merciful and beneficial friend and provider shaped the way
I looked at the world. Now, of course, my upbringing
had additional benefits. Being one of 11 children is Diplomacy 101.
(Laughter) To this day, I am asked
where I went to school, like, “Did you go to
Kennedy School of Government?” and I look at them and I’m like, “No, I went to the Murabit School
of International Affairs.” It’s extremely exclusive. You would have
to talk to my mom to get in. Lucky for you, she’s here. But being one of 11 children
and having 10 siblings teaches you a lot about
power structures and alliances. It teaches you focus; you have
to talk fast or say less, because you will always get cut off. It teaches you the importance
of messaging. You have to ask questions in the right way
to get the answers you know you want, and you have to say no
in the right way to keep the peace. But the most important lesson
I learned growing up was the importance of being at the table. When my mom’s favorite lamp broke,
I had to be there when she was trying to find out how and by who,
because I had to defend myself, because if you’re not,
then the finger is pointed at you, and before you know it,
you will be grounded. I am not speaking
from experience, of course. When I was 15 in 2005,
I completed high school and I moved from Canada — Saskatoon — to Zawiya, my parents’ hometown in Libya, a very traditional city. Mind you, I had only ever been
to Libya before on vacation, and as a seven-year-old girl,
it was magic. It was ice cream and trips to the beach
and really excited relatives. Turns out it’s not the same
as a 15-year-old young lady. I very quickly became introduced
to the cultural aspect of religion. The words “haram” —
meaning religiously prohibited — and “aib” — meaning
culturally inappropriate — were exchanged carelessly, as if they meant the same thing
and had the same consequences. And I found myself in conversation
after conversation with classmates and colleagues, professors,
friends, even relatives, beginning to question my own role
and my own aspirations. And even with the foundation
my parents had provided for me, I found myself questioning
the role of women in my faith. So at the Murabit School
of International Affairs, we go very heavy on the debate, and rule number one is do your research,
so that’s what I did, and it surprised me how easy it was to find women in my faith
who were leaders, who were innovative, who were strong — politically, economically,
even militarily. Khadija financed the Islamic movement in its infancy. We wouldn’t be here if it weren’t for her. So why weren’t we learning about her? Why weren’t we learning about these women? Why were women being relegated
to positions which predated the teachings of our faith? And why, if we are equal
in the eyes of God, are we not equal in the eyes of men? To me, it all came back to the lessons
I had learned as a child. The decision maker, the person
who gets to control the message, is sitting at the table, and unfortunately,
in every single world faith, they are not women. Religious institutions
are dominated by men and driven by male leadership, and they create policies
in their likeness, and until we can change
the system entirely, then we can’t realistically
expect to have full economic and political participation of women. Our foundation is broken. My mom actually says, you can’t build
a straight house on a crooked foundation. In 2011, the Libyan revolution broke out,
and my family was on the front lines. And there’s this amazing thing
that happens in war, a cultural shift almost, very temporary. And it was the first time that I felt
it was not only acceptable for me to be involved,
but it was encouraged. It was demanded. Myself and other women
had a seat at the table. We weren’t holding hands or a medium. We were part of decision making. We were information sharing.
We were crucial. And I wanted and needed
for that change to be permanent. Turns out, that’s not that easy. It only took a few weeks before the women
that I had previously worked with were returning back
to their previous roles, and most of them were driven
by words of encouragement from religious and political leaders, most of whom cited religious scripture
as their defense. It’s how they gained popular support
for their opinions. So initially, I focused on the economic
and political empowerment of women. I thought that would lead
to cultural and social change. It turns out, it does a little,
but not a lot. I decided to use
their defense as my offense, and I began to cite and highlight
Islamic scripture as well. In 2012 and 2013, my organization
led the single largest and most widespread
campaign in Libya. We entered homes and schools
and universities, even mosques. We spoke to 50,000 people directly, and hundreds of thousands more through
billboards and television commercials, radio commercials and posters. And you’re probably wondering how
a women’s rights organization was able to do this in communities
which had previously opposed our sheer existence. I used scripture. I used verses from the Quran
and sayings of the Prophet, Hadiths, his sayings which
are, for example, “The best of you is the best
to their family.” “Do not let your brother oppress another.” For the first time, Friday sermons
led by local community imams promoted the rights of women. They discussed taboo issues,
like domestic violence. Policies were changed. In certain communities,
we actually had to go as far as saying the International
Human Rights Declaration, which you opposed because it wasn’t
written by religious scholars, well, those same principles
are in our book. So really, the United Nations
just copied us. By changing the message,
we were able to provide an alternative narrative which promoted
the rights of women in Libya. It’s something that has now
been replicated internationally, and while I am not saying it’s easy —
believe me, it’s not. Liberals will say you’re using religion
and call you a bad conservative. Conservatives will call you
a lot of colorful things. I’ve heard everything from, “Your parents
must be extremely ashamed of you” — false; they’re my biggest fans — to “You will not make it
to your next birthday” — again wrong, because I did. And I remain a very strong believer that women’s rights
and religion are not mutually exclusive. But we have to be at the table. We have to stop giving up our position,
because by remaining silent, we allow for the continued persecution
and abuse of women worldwide. By saying that we’re going
to fight for women’s rights and fight extremism
with bombs and warfare, we completely cripple local societies
which need to address these issues so that they’re sustainable. It is not easy, challenging
distorted religious messaging. You will have your fair share
of insults and ridicule and threats. But we have to do it. We have no other option than to reclaim
the message of human rights, the principles of our faith, not for us, not for
the women in your families, not for the women in this room, not even for the women out there, but for societies
that would be transformed with the participation of women. And the only way we can do that, our only option, is to be, and remain, at the table. Thank you. (Applause)

99 thoughts on “What Islam really says about women | Alaa Murabit

  1. How many versions of Islam are there? What is % of ‘Islam’ that follow what is presented here in V’s. The % that practice the general population of Islam practice.

  2. This religion is dangerous.
    (Quran 4:34)
    ''As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them, refuse to share their beds, and strike them''.


  3. Women are stoned to death in the middle east. Thats enough information for us from you middle eastern radical muslims.

  4. Like these idiots in the comments section here knows nothing about Islam’s atrocities & demon possessed Muhammad’s psychopath sexual craziness.

  5. https://youtu.be/qS7mBbXxJYA I just watched this girls ted talk about her Christian community and how she ran away…. not for one min did I think all the Christians were like the leaders of her community and check the comments on her talk how everyone is praising her courageous act. How she is so inspiring but when I clicked on this video here, comments were nothing poisonous and full of hate for her religion and how she could give this talk in an Islamic country. I don’t know what educating means to people but honestly if you know how to read please read and stop painting every Muslim every women out their the same. Why are the comments on her video compared to the other girl are different. Why are they so full of hate here when on the other video people are full of positive and encouraging words for her??? What is wrong with us as humans?? Why can’t we see people as people.

  6. Her speech is really true, I'm living too in the north of Africa, men try to dominate the women from traditional aspects not religious. That's why I always say woman should say Noooooo for man, and do whatever she wants. It's her life

  7. As a muslim woman in a muslim country i laugh at some of the comments.I agree with Alaa, and we event have woman deputy prime minister.Open your eyes and mind people.

  8. The bottom line is Mohammed rejected the GOSPEL, Which was JESUS sent to be the 100% PURE SACRIFICE for all SIN! Look up MESSIANIC Prophecies , & READ what the PROPHETS SAID! Prophets don't LIE! This is Isaiahs Prophecy of JESUS & HIM CRUCIFIED!
    What JESUS came to do!
    Isaiah 53
    1 من صدق خبرنا ولمن استعلنت ذراع الرب. 2 نبت قدامه كفرخ وكعرق من ارض يابسة لا صورة له ولا جمال فننظر اليه ولا منظر فنشتهيه. 3 محتقر ومخذول من الناس رجل اوجاع ومختبر الحزن وكمستر عنه وجوهنا محتقر فلم نعتد به 4 لكن احزاننا حملها واوجاعنا تحملها ونحن حسبناه مصابا مضروبا من الله ومذلولا. 5 وهو مجروح لاجل معاصينا مسحوق لاجل آثامنا تاديب سلامنا عليه وبحبره شفينا.6 كلنا كغنم ضللنا ملنا كل واحد الى طريقه والرب وضع عليه اثم جميعنا. 7 ظلم اما هو فتذلل ولم يفتح فاه كشاة تساق الى الذبح وكنعجة صامتة امام جازيها فلم يفتح فاه. 8 من الضغطة ومن الدينونة أخذ. وفي جيله من كان يظن انه قطع من ارض الاحياء انه ضرب من اجل ذنب شعبي. 9وجعل مع الاشرار قبره ومع غني عند موته. على انه لم يعمل ظلما ولم يكن في فمه غش 10 اما الرب فسرّ بان يسحقه بالحزن. ان جعل نفسه ذبيحة اثم يرى نسلا تطول ايامه ومسرة الرب بيده تنجح. 11من تعب نفسه يرى ويشبع. وعبدي البار بمعرفته يبرر كثيرين وآثامهم هو يحملها. 12 لذلك اقسم له بين الاعزاء ومع العظماء يقسم غنيمة من اجل انه سكب للموت نفسه وأحصي مع أثمة وهو حمل خطية كثيرين وشفع في المذنبين

  9. Mohammed married a 6 year Old when he was OLD 54 YR old man . & You believe this man can be HOLY? & remember the story of this WIFE He forcibly married after killing her husband & brother because HE WANTED HER!!
    Was Mohammed GOOD to his wives? During Muhammad's jihad on the Jews of Khaybar, he took for himself from among the spoils of war one young woman, a teenager, Safiya bint Huyay, after hearing of her beauty. (Earlier the prophet had bestowed her on another Muslim jihadi, but when rumor of her beauty reached him, the prophet reneged and took her for himself.)

    Muhammad "married" Safiya hours after he had her husband, Kinana, tortured to death in order to reveal hidden treasure. And before this, the prophet's jihadis slaughtered Safiya's father and brothers.

    While Islamic apologists have long tried to justify this account—often by saying that Muhammad gave her the honor of "marriage" as opposed to being a concubine and that she opted to convert to Islam—they habitually fail to cite what Islamic sources record, namely Baladhuri's ninth century Kitab Futuh al-Buldan ("Book of Conquests").

    According to this narrative, after the death of Muhammad, Safiya confessed that "Of all men, I hated the prophet the most—for he killed my husband, my brother, and my father," before "marrying" (or, less euphemistically, raping) her.

  10. "The Messiahs Return"
    Matthew 24:30
    30. Then will appear the sign of the Son of Man in heaven. And then all the peoples of the earth[c] will mourn when they see the Son of Man coming on the clouds of heaven, with power and great glory.[d] 31 And he will send his angels with a loud trumpet call, and they will gather his elect from the four winds, from one end of the heavens to the other.

    32 “Now learn this lesson from the fig tree: As soon as its twigs get tender and its leaves come out, you know that summer is near. 33 Even so, when you see all these things, you know that it[e]is near, right at the door. 34 Truly I tell you, this generation will certainly not pass away until all these things have happened. 35 Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away.

    The Day and Hour Unknown

    36 “But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son,[f] but only the Father. 37 As it was in the days of Noah, so it will be at the coming of the Son of Man. 38 For in the days before the flood, people were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, up to the day Noah entered the ark; 39 and they knew nothing about what would happen until the flood came and took them all away. That is how it will be at the coming of the Son of Man. 40 Two men will be in the field; one will be taken and the other left. 41 Two women will be grinding with a hand mill; one will be taken and the other left.

    42 “Therefore keep watch, because you do not know on what day your Lord will come. 43 But understand this: If the owner of the house had known at what time of night the thief was coming, he would have kept watch and would not have let his house be broken into. 44 So you also must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him.

  11. Here's an amazing account of another woman (HIGHLY RECOMMENDABLE!): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rmrmtp5Z8qM

  12. Lol. As a Canadian Muslim you are so brave. Lmfao go to Saudi Arabia without security and say what you do. See what happens with all the Muslim Feminism

  13. Okay but in islam, the testimony of a woman is half that of a man, a woman gets half the inheritance that a man would, the quran orders men to beat their wives if they are disobedient, and the prophet consummated marrige with aisha when he was 50 and she was 9. Google 'consummated' if u dont know what that means. And the quran literally says that men are a degree above women.
    And dont get me started on the hadith

  14. Just imagine how much bad impacts on environment (or mother nature) had been put by these 11 ? They have definitely used some 100 kgs of plastics or more each and still using. Emits some more kgs of CO2. Population control is very essential today. Otherwise we all will die very soon…

  15. She is lying to all of you
    Islam is disgrace for women she should be ashamed of herself saying bullshit like that

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  17. Hmm… "launched a campaign to fight for women's rights using verses directly from the Koran" yet keeps her hair covered while in a non-Muslim country.

  18. Surely citing khadija is proof that women in PRE Islamic times had economic power?? Khadija was wealthy before Islam. So it is misleading to say that before Islam women had no rights and after Islam their lives suddenly got better.

  19. Let's just talk about why you're wearing that scarf on your head and did your mother consent for having 11 children

  20. Sahih Muslim

    Book 008, Number 3424:

    ' A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Sahla bint Suhail came to Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) and said: Messenger of Allah, I see on the face of Abu Hudhaifa (signs of disgust) on entering of Salim (who is an ally) into (our house), whereupon Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) said: Suckle him. She said: How can I suckle him as he is a grown-up man? Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) smiled and said: I already know that he is a young man. 'Amr has made this addition in his narration that he participated in the Battle of Badr and in the narration of Ibn 'Umar (the words are): Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) laughed.

    Book 008, Number 3425:

    'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Salim, the freed slave of Abu Hadhaifa, lived with him and his family in their house. She (i. e. the daughter of Suhail came to Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) and said: Salim has attained (puberty) as men attain, and he understands what they understand, and he enters our house freely, I, however, perceive that something (rankles) in the heart of Abu Hudhaifa, whereupon Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) said to her: Suckle him and you would become unlawful for him, and (the rankling) which Abu Hudhaifa feels in his heart will disappear. She returned and said: So I suckled him, and what (was there) in the heart of Abu Hudhaifa disappeared.

    Book 008, Number 3427:

    Umm Salama said to 'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her): A young boy who is at the threshold of puberty comes to you. I, however, do not like that he should come to me, whereupon 'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) said: Don't you see in Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) a model for you? She also said: The wife of Abu Hudhaifa said: Messenger of Allah, Salim comes to me and now he is a (grown-up) person, and there is something that (rankles) in the mind of Abu Hudhaifa about him, whereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: Suckle him (so that he may become your foster-child), and thus he may be able to come to you (freely).

    Book 008, Number 3428:

    Zainab daughter of Abu Salama reported: I heard Umm Salama, the wife of Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon himy, saying to 'A'isha: By Allah, I do not like to be seen by a young boy who has passed the period of fosterage, whereupon she ('A'isha) said: Why is it so? Sahla daughter of Suhail came to Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) and said: Allah's Messenger, I swear by Allah that I see in the face of Abu Hudhaifa (the signs of disgust) on account of entering of Salim (in the house), whereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: Suckle him. She (Sahla bint Suhail) said: He has a beard. But he (again) said: Suckle him, and it would remove what is there (expression of disgust) on the face of Abu Hudhaifa. She said: (I did that) and, by Allah, I did not see (any sign of disgust) on the face of Abu Hadhaifa.

    Imam Malik’s Muwatta

    Book 30, Number 30.1.8:

    Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi that Safiyya bint Abi Ubayd told him that Hafsa, umm al-muminin, sent Asim ibn Abdullah ibn Sad to her sister Fatima bint Umar ibn al-Khattab for her to suckle him ten times so that he could come in to see her. She did it, so he used to come in to see her.

    Book 30, Number 30.2.12:

    Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab that he was asked about the suckling of an older person. He said, ''Urwa ibn az-Zubayr informed me that Abu Hudhayfa ibn Utba ibn Rabia, one of the companions of the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, who was present at Badr, adopted Salim (who is called Salim, the mawla of Abu Hudhayfa) as the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, adopted Zayd ibn Haritha. He thought of him as his son, and Abu Hudhayfa married him to his brother's sister, Fatima bint al-Walid ibn Utba ibn Rabia, who was at that time among the first emigrants. She was one of the best unmarried women of the Quraysh. When Allah the Exalted sent down in His Book what He sent down about Zayd ibn Haritha, 'Call them after their true fathers. That is more equitable in the sight of Allah. If you do not know who their fathers were then they are your brothers in the deen and your mawali,' (Sura 33 ayat 5) people in this position were traced back to their fathers. When the father was not known, they were traced to their mawla.

    "Sahla bint Suhayl who was the wife of Abu Hudhayfa, and one of the tribe of Amr ibn Luayy, came to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said, 'Messenger of Allah! We think of Salim as a son and he comes in to see me while I am uncovered. We only have one room, so what do you think about the situation?' The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Give him five drinks of your milk and he will be mahram by it.' She then saw him as a foster son. A'isha umm al-muminin took that as a precedent for whatever men she wanted to be able to come to see her. She ordered her sister, Umm Kulthum bint Abi Bakr as-Siddiq and the daughters of her brother to give milk to whichever men she wanted to be able to come in to see her. The rest of the wives of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, refused to let anyone come in to them by such nursing. They said, 'No! By Allah! We think that what the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, ordered Sahla bint Suhayl to do was only an indulgence concerning the nursing of Salim alone. No! By Allah! No one will come in upon us by such nursing!'

    "This is what the wives of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, thought about the suckling of an older person."

    Book 30, Number 30.2.13:

    Yahya related to me from Malik that Abdullah ibn Dinar said, "A man came to Abdullah ibn Umar when I was with him at the place where judgments were given and asked him about the suckling of an older person. Abdullah ibn Umar replied, ‘A man came to Umar ibn al-Khattab and said, 'I have a slave-girl and I used to have intercourse with her. My wife went to her and suckled her. When I went to the girl, my wife told me to watch out, because she had suckled her!' Umar told him TO BEAT HIS WIFE and to go to his slave-girl because kinship by suckling was only by the suckling of the young.’"

    Book 30, Number 30.2.14:

    Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said that a man said to Abu Musa al-Ashari, "I drank some milk from my wife's breasts and it went into my stomach." Abu Musa said, "I can only but think that she is haram for you." Abdullah ibn Masud said, "Look at what opinion you are giving the man." Abu Musa said, "Then what do you say?" Abdullah ibn Masud said, "There is only kinship by suckling in the first two years."

    Abu Musa said, "Do not ask me about anything while this learned man is among you."

    Let us summarize the data.

    Muhammad commanded a married woman to nurse her husband’s adopted son, despite the fact that he had reached puberty.

    Aisha took this to mean that she could nurse those men that she wanted to have access to.

    Aisha advised her sister and nieces to do likewise so as to allow men to enter into them.

    Muhammad’s wives spoke out against this practice, claiming that Muhammad commanded this for Sahla alone.

    Others such as Umar and Ibn Masud stated that kinship is limited to the nursing of a child for the first two years. After that, the milk becomes only food for the child.

    Umar commanded a man to beat his wife for nursing a slave girl with the intention of making that slave girl unlawful for her husband.

    Whatever interpretation Aisha, Umar and Ibn Masud may have given to Muhammad's instruction later on (correctly or incorrectly), the fact that Muhammad would command a woman to nurse a young man is shameful and disgusting to say the least.

  21. Refer to scripture? All the terrorists also referred to scripture.. scripture said women only half intelligent of men ? ?

  22. you are muslim but the you closing is like not muslim you cover your head what about the rest of your body, i think yuo are not a muslim just you say that and you talk about onesty my english is not god but i have to tell you, you talk about haram you are haram your selv, come on i don,t belive what ever you say sorry.

  23. ما أرقى قول الحبيب رسول البشريّة محمّد صلّى الله عليه و سلٌم في المرأة احتراما لها و تكريما لدورها في الحياة : " لا يُكرمهنَّ إلّا كريم ولا يُؤذيهِنَّ إلّا لئيم "…💓🌺

  24. If you covered your body head to toe with that stupid gown , which was put by men not by Allah . Not every women are willingly covering like you , they are forced to do it . There are so many things are forced on women unfairly. So where is the freedom of women rights in Islam . So no Islam for me.

  25. Fake Muslims are calling Muslim women who are teachers and who have been celibate all their lives- whores, even Muslim women who have attended top universities and taught at universities. There is a reason why Islam is a joke today.

  26. Keep in mind that military intelligence estimates that of the 1.8 billion Muslims worldwide, between 15-25% of them are potential jihadists, which means upwards of 350,000,000 of them are loose in and around civilization. When Muslim barbarism occurs – and it occurs every day – no Muslim – none – will step up to criticize or denounce them. The evidence is overwhelming. Therefore, every Muslim, EVERY Muslim, must be removed from every civil society, along with their donkeys and camels, and shipped to Saudi Arabia, Iran, Iraq, Jordan, Yemen. Every single Muslim vestige – down to a Muslim pencil – must be removed. Otherwise, Jews, Christians, Buddhists, Hindus, atheists – non-Muslim, will be – must be according to the Quran (the Muslim manifesto) annihilated.

  27. In every country, no matter what the religion is, we(women) can protect women rights and we can be heard. all we need is really really hard work. girls, believe in yourselves.

  28. What is relevant about this video ? For sure emancipation would be good for islam. But I don 't see that enough. And I don 't have the patience needed to wat for it ever to happen.

  29. Khadija, the 15 years older wife of Mohammed, was a business woman (!), and Mohammed her employe❗️! She proposed marriage to him! For many years they went to some kind of a Catholic Church… This was long before he, they started Islam….❗️
    When he had the "encounter" with "a spirit" he believed it to be evil…. Khadija convinced him it was from God❗️!
    Dear Speaker…you have grown up in a christian country….that's why your way of thinking is marked "from freedom"….but please, look at the realties in Muslim country's ….(!!!) heard of Asia Bibi (Pakistan) recently? Heard of young Saudi women who risked there life to escape to Canada? (Because of the free press…in our christian country's they got attention in the public❗️….and now the Saudis had to react!
    Please, look at reality in all Islamic country's ….otherwise you lie to yourselves and to others….
    And…is it not that religion should answer the biggest question of our life❓ Why do we live and where do we go when we die….?
    Means : Origin, meaning, morality, destiny❗️❓
    Why follow a man who had to admit he had no assurance in death if God would accept him on the judgement day…???
    We have to encourage one another not to seek religion but THE TRUTH….about our existence!
    Look at the videos from Vishal Mangalwadi "Truth Matters"….
    A Hindu who digged deep… (Now Ex- Hindu by the grace of the living God)!

  30. Islam said, Women is production factory and for joy do pedophelia, Women are slave and right hand holding stuff.

  31. Islam is the ideology, a donkey loaded with stuff and shuttle for one place to other. Islam is the scum of the earth.

  32. https://youtu.be/_bw1zHjZNf8
    Muslim women

  33. Lady, I am an Ex-Muslim! So, let me ask you this. Are you sure that you are "proud of your faith?" Or, are you using "taqiyya"–lying to "unbelievers." So, if that is the case, do you accept that you are intellectually deficient as the prophet said? Do you accept that your husband can beat you up, as the Quran says?; that man is superior to you? I can go on and on. And you are proud of this? A brainwashed zombie.

  34. When men speaks up he gets blessed
    When women speaks up they get humiliated and gets bash
    (Before you bash me please anwer my question)

  35. . maurizio minni  listen listen my cousin.
    Our first piller to being muslim is to believe in.
    Lailaha illalah mohammadur rasoolAlllah sallalahu tala alaihi wassalama.
    Which means There is no god but Allah and Mohammad sallalahu tala alaihi wasslama is the messenger of god,
    This is very cleary mention in sahi hadeeth and quran various times.
    Various time our prophet told that he is prophet.
    Various time Allah tell that our prophet is prophet.
    Our first piller is various time mention in quran and hadeeth very cleary.
    There is varios statament of our prophet and Allah.

    To become christan this is first pillar that jesus is god.
    Why is this not mention in bible by clearly.
    Why is not any statement of jesus where jesua said taht he is god and worship him.
    You are just proving me,from this way,that way,these those.
    To believing jesus is god is conpulsury and first piller for you,this is bot recomend for christan.
    You r proving me like this way,like that way ,to believing jesus is god is rocomend for christan.
    If this is recomendation then you can right.
    But this is not recommendation but compalsury and first piller.
    Then why is not any statement of jesus where jesua say he is god and worship him.
    How can it possible if that is believe is conpulsary,then how can that jesus wil not tell that he is god and worship him.
    You r just prooving me like this ,that .
    We also proove in that way some thing but not compulsary thing but recomandation thing.
    If that believe is compulsury then why is not any statement of jesus.
    Where jesus say that he is god and worship him.
    Jesus never ordered to believe in trinity and believe in him that he has fied gor our sin..

  36. .Jesus never ordered that believe in trinity and believe in jesus that he has died for our sin and we have to repent for our sin. if my master not tell me that he is god ,and if i will not believe in my master as god then he will never punish me because he has not ordered me to believing in him as god.
    I believe in jesus as messenger as christ as prophet and do not believe in him as god because jesus not ordered me to believing in him as god even he never announce himself as god,but jesus will punish me for that work which he has never ordered me.
    Is this not devilism.
    Jesus will punish for that work which has never ordered me by jesus.
    If my master punish me for that work which was not ordered by master then is my master not devil.
    Jesus never order me to believe in him as god but jesus will punish because i did not believe in him.as god.
    Tell me is this not devilism.
    If believimg in jesus as god is compulsury to going heave then why did jesus not ordered me to believe him as god.

  37. I am a teen Muslim girl I am gonna compete in Olympic 2020 (track and field). I have been waiting for this moment for so long. My clothes will be supper modest on the track from head to toe covered but I have heard from many scholars that Muslim women cannot compete in the games even in modest clothing because there are men. This is my childhood dream. But I can leave it if it is so (against Islam). Can any Muslim brother or sister can guide me what should I do. I am a really good athlete and probably can make the history.

  38. So many people confuse Islam with the national culture of so-called Islamic countries. They are not the same. In the U.S. most people claim to be Christians. However, most of us fornicate. That does not mean that Christianity teaches this behavior. Most Christians have never read the Bible cover to cover. Most just listen to their preacher. Most Muslims have never read the Quran. Most don't even read Arabic and a lot are not even literate to read in any language. They just listen to their Imam. Religions are not the problem. The lack of knowledge, analysis and application is the problem.

  39. The Network of Ex-moslims ( may peace be upon them all ) of North America and beyond https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXEPxzERO6Ph7OBypo9UtlQ

  40. Islam is only one Gang.
    This is called Swami Vivekananda. Because Mohammed is not called "I maked
    a one Religion". The normal feature of gang.

    1. All members following one hardcore thought.

    2. All members following same Culture.

    3. All members following one of supreme Men like Mohammed.

    4. All member following only one book not others like kuran.

    Islam is The Only Terrorist group. It is must true.

    Because all terrorist group in the world is following Islam like ISIS, Taliban, Alkayda

    Islam -=fast poison
    reaction = fast.

    Islam is must violence and Hardcore Gang.

    Islam is the slum of the world. It is must true.

    So all Muslim convert to others religions.

  41. I am a Muslim and I don't agree with her. According to the Quran, the punishment of fornication is 100 lashes in public, the punishment of adultery is being stoned to death and the punishment of stealing is hands being chopped off. Prophet also carried out those punishments on women. He stoned a woman to death for committing fornication more than once and asked people to chop a woman's hands off for stealing. Many innocent women are stoned to death or given 100 lashes over false accusations of fornication and adultery.

    Honour killings are still legal in some Islamic countries like Saudi Arabia and Iran.

    According to Pakistan's law, a father can forgive his son in an honour killing case.

    Women are not allowed to have boyfriends, which leaves arranged marriage as the only option.
    When they do have boyfriends or court marriages, they are killed in the name of honour.
    The police does nothing and people justify those honour killings.

    A Muslim woman is only safe and respected when she doesn't have a boyfriend and doesn't wear short clothes.

    I want to mention two cases.

    A Pakistani social media star called Qandeel Baloch was killed by her brother for being bold on social media. Many Pakistanis still justify her honour killing. They say killing her was important to save their culture and image. Even though, the brother confessed the murder on camera, still the case went on for three years. And the father just gave up.

    Few months ago, I read in the newspapers that Saudi campaigners who campaigned for women's right to drive with UN ambassador Meghan Markle are in jail being lashed, electrocuted and starved. Something the Saudis will NEVER mention.

    They don't understand that even when the world criticises Pakistan – short clothes and item songs are never the reason. Reasons usually include honour killings, terrorism and British Pakistani grooming gangs not short clothes and item songs.

  42. So,temme what is being stupidly saying here?! You mean to say you as a man are supposed to breathe & women in Islam has to go through domestic voilence & raised as Weak,by misusing Islam,Do you want your daughter to make yua own to feel low about herself all the time,do you think Allah will not ask you on judgemental day for misleading Islam,Yes,Allah said that "it is only Allowed to do sujood In front of husband,After Allah" but here people make Allah to men itself for a woman,no matter whether even you are being killed by being with him,you have to obey & destroy yourself,can you even imagine how their children life would be,Yu can't! Yu are jus blindly following things either in the name of culture or Islam,to make this useless,Lazy men superior،In Prophet's eyes , Those men are worse than Animal who do Domestic Voilence in the name of providing!

  43. How about one of many examples of what your religion says about women, e.g. women are half as intelligent as men 🙂 Sounds so great

  44. Can any muslim help clarify this? The lady in this ted talk never mentioned any thing about it.


  45. be at the table. i was struggling between my religious/spiritual state of mind and state made by my gender in this world. thank you so much for be at the table and fighting for everyone. i believe this is a act of truly god. you gave me a courage.

  46. Her mom: "You can't build a straight house in a crooked foundation."

    Buildings of San fransisco: "hold my 🍺.."

  47. A religion which dictates how a woman must dress, what you can eat and drink, and even the right way to enter a toilet (left foot first!!!), condones slavery, polygamy, killing non-believers….. is clearly not a religion in the Western sense……. total control and obligation reek of fascism by any definition. To seriously believe men could become uncontrolably aroused sexually by the sight of women's hair or arms is so ludicrous it insults the whole concept of a wise God. Conservative muslims continue to flock into Western secular countries where their beliefs are anathema to Western values….why this mass hypocrisy? What's so wrong with staying in a country that shares your values? What does the Koran say about imposing your opinions on those who don't want them ??? What does the Koran say about not respecting the culture of your host country by e.g. refusing to shake hands…..etc.?

    Thank God for agnostics !!!

  48. so you agree that the holy book was written by men and his point of view what heaven and disagree women are half brained and can only be given half the credibility ? are u mad ? dont you think you are now on someone's hit list ?

  49. Islam honors woman and gives them respect but if Muslims don't act upon Islam then the case of disrespecting woman would happen unfortunately

  50. The second Caliph of Islam] Omar ibn Al-Khattab said, “There were two things in the pre-Islamic era, one of them makes me cry and the other one makes me laugh. The one that makes me cry; I had taken a daughter of mine to bury her alive and I was digging the hole for her while she was dusting my beard off without knowing what I am planning for her, when I remember that, I cry. And the other one is that I used to make a God of dates that I put over my head to guard me during the night, then when I woke up I would eat it, and whenever I remember that I laugh at myself” (Muhammad al-Amin al-Shinqiti, Adhwa’ul Bayan, Beirut, Lebanon, 1995, Vol. 9, p. 63).

  51. Arabs used to dig a hole under the pregnant woman whenever she experienced labor, in order that the child will be placed into it when delivered. If he was a boy they would take him out of it and if she was a girl then they would leave it and they would dump soil over her body till she dies, and that Omar Ibn Al-Khattab testified to the Prophet Mohammad, saying “O Messenger of Allah, I have committed female infanticide during the pre-Islamic era” (Al-Haythami, Majmau’ al-Zawa’id wa Manba’ al-Fawa’id, 1994, Vol. 7, p. 204, Hadith 11469; Al-Mawardi, Al-Hawi Al-Kabir [The Comprehensive Book[, 1994, Vol. 13, p. 67) .

  52. Wrapping one's head in a dishcloth and donning a potato sack, why it's the beginning of this wonderous "Reverting" process. A mindset that leads the empty headed all the way backwards to the 7th century, becoming backward tent dwelling, camel riding sword wielding Arabian want to be!

  53. What a load of crap! Look at every "culture" where women ARE given the opportunity to co-govern…..it goes very badly. Example: modern day Holland, Belgium, Sweden. The strongest woman I've ever known was my Mum, who never thought she needed to stand next to a man to prove anything or change anything. She used to say: "Women think throwing themselves around like candy at a parade will change the world for the better….it only shallows the depth that a woman's character needs to have when her son, her husband or the men in leadership of her community – drop the ball." Men and Women will never be equal and only a woman ( a clear-headed, humble-humble-humble woman ) can be all she is made ( or "re-made" ) to be when she knows her station. That 'station' is not pushing men aside, or being subordinate to any man. Rather strengthening men in her life with those virtues that make her so precious, deserving of more respect and admiration – her humility to accept what she cannot change and her faith in Truth to do what is right for her, without putting down what / who seems like is in her way. This madness is what is killing every autonomous, Western-European society right now…..the idea that fiscal, political, religious and cultural decisions can be made by women who adopt the minds of men, and men who are afraid of women.

    A woman's 'station' is always to be where her passion lies. 8 out of 10 times that is her family, her husband, her children and her community. The other 2? Well you're seeing what they can do. Look at Sweden, Holland and yes – Germany! Listen to what real women of conservative convictions say about feminism there! That is, if all the recorded words have not yet been deleted or erased from history.

    FYI: Mum was a staunch conservative but she didn't believe in "religion" or the "God" that her dissapointing Christian influences tried to sell her on. Virtue and Respect is not like a magazine subscription, or an order form at a Tupperware party. It is taught, yes, but it is "accepted and maintained" by the intrinsic values of modesty and humility.

    That…….is what makes a woman of real strength "stand-out", and she will be listened to, surrounded by protection and provision despite her "religion", even if it's a nutter like Islam.

    Oops! Did I offend someone? Too bad. Go eat some more cake and write to your Imam. I don't care!

    Station. ⚔️🌈🇬🇧

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