How To Text A Girl You Like (steal these text examples!)


Hey, it’s Tripp from www.trippadvice.com and I have a special presentation for you on this video. Today, we are going to be talking about one of the burning questions that guys come to me and ask in the comments and I want to answer it for you toda. How to text a girl that you like? We are going to answer this. We were going to break it down. I’m going to show you some actual examples from past conversations that I’ve had with girls via text. You’re going to see exactly how it’s done and we’re going to break it down into a simple formula so you’ll be able to use it for yourself when you want to text a girl that you like. Before I go into it, I want to tell you about my Ultimate Guide To Texting. This is one of the latest blog posts and you will find it at www.trippadvice.com/blog. It is obviously 100% free. It is just one of the blog posts. It is an ultimate guide to texting. We break everything down in this guide. Don’t get me wrong, we’re going to go over some amazing stuff today that is not in the blog post. See the blog post as something that is going to kind of transform your texting because it goes into massive detail talking about exactly what to text a girl when you meet up with her, how to get her to respond to you if she hasn’t responded yet. Basically every little situation that you could think of in terms of when you would want or need to text a girl. Check that out after this video at www.trippadvice.com/blog or you can click on the screen. I’ll put a little annotation that will take you right to there and then you can go there after we break down all the good stuff on this video. Let’s get into it. Basically, what’s the goal? That’s what you need to know. That is the most important thing when it comes to texting. I’m telling you straight up. What is the goal? I’ll tell you what the goal is. If you don’t already know, the goal is to get her to meet up with you. Obviously right? The goal isn’t to just text her all day long or get into a sexting conversation which I will be doing a video about pretty soon here and as much as that is fun, you want to meet up with her. You want to get with her in person, right? That is the goal. Knowing that that is the goal, you need to make sure that everything you do regarding texting has to do with trying to achieve this goal and the reason why I have to say this as obvious as it might seem to you is because I’ve worked with so many guys that have really not understood that this is the goal because I see them texting the girl all day long never trying to get them to meet up. And that is the point. Remember that that’s the goal. Moving along. We’re going to break this down. There’s two basically two scenarios in which you’re gonna be texting a girl. You either don’t know her, meaning you got her number at a bar or maybe during the day or you you know you finally just got a girl’s number and you’re about to text her for the first time. A first-time number, we’ll go over what to do with that and then after that I’m going to teach you what to do if there’s already a girl that you have been interested in that you got her number maybe a long time ago or it’s a girl that’s in your social circle someone that you like and you already know her and I’ll show you how to text that girl as well. Starting with the first time number, I’m going to tell you about the 48 hour rule. If you’ve ever seen the movie Swingers, which by the way I highly recommend you see because it’s hilarious. It’s an old movie, I can’t believe saying old movie. It’s only from the 90’s. I guess that was 20 years ago. It’s with Vince Vaughn and John Favreau and they go out and they meet girls and they talk about when they should contact the girl. It’s really funny because it ends up that they said that they content the girls six days later after getting her number and it’s hilarious I hope that none of you guys are doing that I believe in the 48 hour rule especially these days okay why the 48 hour rule why contact her within 48 hours that’s because if you don’t that means someone else is probably jumping on board and doing it and you’re going to be missing out if you’re getting a girl’s number especially high quality girls numbers someone that’s really awesome a really beautiful there’s a good chance that she’s giving her number away to other guys as well so you need to kind of jump on board and also with mass social media these days we’re in contact with so many people that it’s very possible that you’re gonna get a girl’s number and if you text her like a week later she’s gonna actually forget about you because that’s what happens to attraction decreases as time goes on that’s exactly what happens so I want you to contact her within 48 hours you’re going to texture within 48 hours of meeting her okay so here is an example text this is one that is just so simple steal this use this this is something that I have been coaching for years it took me it’s crazy that it took me a while to kind of figure out this simple text but I’m not really into texting weird text I don’t know there’s a lot of the text game stuff that makes you sound very like gay me and strange and a lot of girls will see through that these days so this is really simple hey you great meeting you last night you know again this is something you can kind of play around with Vita meter last 90 min or a couple days ago you know say the name of the night great meeting you saturday great meeting you sunday whatever was and then you put a little cute little saying here cause any more trouble after I left dash and then your name okay and the name is really important because she again she might not remember you even 24 hours later she might be like wait what was who’s that again what was his name right because we’re meeting a lot of people were doing a lot of things so you want to remind her of who you are so you’ll put dash your name so that’s a great opening text okay and it will work for you okay so if you’re one of those guys who’s watching right now and you’re saying this is lame I would never say this Baba trust me trust me trust me if a girl likes you if you made a great connection because that’s what it’s all about it’s all about making that great connection getting or attracted when you first meet her and if you did that correctly if you did that correctly then what’s gonna happen is that she is going to be excited that she got this text from you it’s really simple and she’s gonna want to text back okay she’s gonna want to text you back if she likes you okay all right so I’m gonna go over my texting formula and if you’ve been watching a lot of my videos you might be like wait in a trip this looks very familiar I’ve seen this before well you will write you have seen this before you seen this on how to ask a girl out on facebook check that video out i’ll put a link in the description below but this is the same exact formula okay because the formula being used is really just it’s the formula for any type of social media or contacting a girl I don’t know virtually digitally whatever you want to call it okay so this is a texting formula same as the Facebook asking a girl out formula it’s T 1 R 1 T 2 R to see okay not to complicate this anymore but t 1 is just your text it’s your text number one which was like this one okay and then she’s gonna respond that’s her r 1 then you’re gonna text her back t 2 and then she’s gonna text back her response to and then c is closed meaning you’re gonna go for the clothes you’re gonna go for hanging out with it right because that’s the goal remember that is the goal okay so in just a second here i’m going to show you an example of me using this formula okay and using it almost to the T but the general idea of what it looks like so let’s get into that okay so I’m in blue and she is in the light grey okay and this is a few years back so I did the basically almost the exact same thing here right hey you how was the rest of your night now I didn’t put my own rule but I shouldn’t have done that I should have put my name after that but either way Anthony as you can see here this is the best part 9 42 am I remember this text message was sent the very next morning okay and here’s the beauty of this okay I know you’re probably reading these text messages right now but just listen up for a second the beauty of this and the reason why I was showing you this example is because we talked for five minutes now that’s usually pretty rare okay it’s very rare that you can not that you can get a girl’s number in five minutes but you can get a number so fast and get her interested so fast that’s the thing you can connect so fast so I just want to prove to you that even after talking to a girl for five minutes and connecting with her and getting her interested in you and getting her to like you and again you can watch all the other videos in this channel to learn how to do that okay but he imagined five minutes and she still responds the next morning okay that just goes to show you the proof is this is that when you really get a girl to like you it doesn’t matter what you text her okay so let’s go into it hey you i was the rest of your night and then she kind of responds okay I mean hey she responds that’s good enough hey good you we left kind of early and then I said where’d you go and then I said fasting today now and I said fasting today because that was referring to I remember that she was Jewish and there was like a holy holiday and we were talking about the idea of fasting and the so the reefs or what you to learn from that that that’s like a call back to her conversation so that’s something you’d want to do to his call back to something you guys talked about right and she gets it right away she says just one home no I’m not you okay and it’s funny right like this is a very she’s not really responding very excited she’s not no smiley faces no exclamation points but let’s keep going okay so fast and say no just went home no I’m not you and then I said hell no smiley face we should hang out and then I just go for it right so I did exactly the formula right just one for the clothes hell no smiley face we should hang next week what’s your schedule like okay and then she didn’t respond for a long time okay she didn’t respond for a long time so I sent this text message that was basically I think someone told me that says I did not make this one up but I said you know I think she didn’t respond for like I don’t know a whole day I said was it something I said holds head in shame LOL right just because i’m calling her out on like hey where’d you go we were talking right and she was responding pretty quickly so it’s kind of just weird how she didn’t respond to that i was like oh this is probably the girl is gonna flake but then she said yes let’s so now here the exclamation points here’s the excitement sorry i was getting dressed I don’t know if she was lying or on who knows and then I said cool one what’s your favorite food to what days are you free see how I’m just kind of getting right to the point there right to the point and then she answers and goes right with it where she goes right along with it sushi um tuesday or wednesday ok and then let’s see i did love sushi right so I’m just kind of being cute with their love sushi which I do and I said you know I’m just gonna love logistics down Tuesday 8pm what area you live in and then she said brentwood you I said west LA ish very nice gutsy let’s do it let’s okay so what if you already know her well I want to talk to you about something called the fun factor okay what you want to do is when you’re texting a girl that you already know when you’re trying to get her to respond you want to make sure that what you’re saying is fun you want to turn things into a more fun question and more fun statement and I’ll give you an example of exactly what I’m talking about here so the fun factor an example would be like instead of saying hey what’s up right so instead of just texting a girl hey what’s up pretty boring right I want you to turn that into you’ll never guess what I’m doing right now dot dot so that’s a very intriguing that’s going to get her to want to respond to you okay so you want to be fun you want to be intriguing like I’ll never guess what I’m doing right now and then whatever you want to do you know maybe you are doing something fun maybe you’re doing something lame and that can be sort of funny because it’s like a juxtaposition like this is saying that you’re doing something kind of crazy but you’re really not play around with it see how it works for you everything’s kind of a test okay another thing instead of doing hey what’s up you could do something whatever it is reminded me of you what have you been up to missy right so whatever it is something that reminded you of the girl that’s also kind of intriguing right she’s gonna she’s gonna be like oh what’s going on oh I popped in his head right and then you kind of be all cute about it what have you been up to missy okay another one could be instead of saying hey what’s up you can say oMG what are you doing right now okay so that’s gonna get her attention just be like oh she’s like oh I’m doing this you know what I mean like she’s gonna book why is he texting me in such a panic on such a fury and then after that you can be like you and me have to get together or something it doesn’t really matter what you say the point of these text messages is to get her to initially respond okay if she doesn’t respond after the in this initial text and she doesn’t want to go out with you or hang out with you then I mean I would drop it she doesn’t like you at that point there’s no special fun little quirky magical line that you’re going to say to her that’s gonna all of a sudden get her to want to meet up with you again okay and if it in f that does happen it’s just super rare I’m just being real with you okay I’m not going to give you some some lame advice here that’s going to steer you in the wrong direction okay but these are some good text messages to kind of start it off okay here’s another one and what trouble have you been getting yourself into lately okay you can use that as a follow-up or you can use that as an initial text and again that’s just kind of flirty i like the little emoticon there okay and remember what’s the goal what’s the goal of the goal is to get her out so i don’t want you to stay in a text message conversation for days and days and days and not eventually ask her out or get her to meet up with you okay because that is what you want to do you’re going to gain quicker attraction with the girl if you meet up with her rather than trying to do it with some stupid little text messages okay so that is the goal okay and I want to give you some rules in terms of texting before we close off this video so you know what to do when you guys are in the middle of a text message conversation emoticons when necessary okay so here i use an emoticon because i’m just being look flirty and cute okay so if you’re being flirty you can throw it in there don’t overuse emoticons because then it makes you kind of look girly okay only use them when necessary and do use them use them once in a while use them if you ever telling a joke so if you’re seeing something that might come off its kind of harsh like you’re teasing her throw an emoticon in there to let her know that you’re just kind of flirting with her okay don’t over text don’t over text so don’t sound like a bunch of text messages when she hasn’t responded to you okay that’s going to come off very needy I don’t want you to send very long text messages either don’t put a whole story in a text message okay only exception to that rule is if she’s doing it first and you’re responding you having a long conversation but even if you’re at that point where you guys are sending each other very long text messages I want you guys to get on the phone just call her okay again it’s going to be better to connect with her / voice or in person rather than just reading some words on a screen okay another rule is avoid the getting to know you okay so don’t try to get to know her over text message if we first met her you know save that for in person okay don’t try to do any kind of like questions about what she’s into or you know getting to know her and her interests or her values or anything like that do it in person don’t do it over text text message is just the vessel for logistical purposes so you can meet up with her okay so if you want to learn more about texting if you want to get really really deep into texting and with more examples in every little situation you could possibly think of go to trippadvice.com / blog and get the ultimate guide to texting okay it’s right there on the blog if you’re watching this right when I put it out it’s going to be one of the first blog posts if you’re watching this like a year after you I put this video out don’t worry it’s still up there and we’re not taking it down just syph do a couple of the blog posts look for the ultimate guide to texting and you’ll learn every little aspect that you need to learn okay I’m going to be putting out some more videos on texting in the next few weeks here and again if you’re watching to see you later check out my other texting videos because you’re going to learn more stuff that’s not going to be necessarily in the ultimate guide but everything is a compliment learn it all watch it all take the notes learn this stuff implement it I hope that you see success from it don’t forget to subscribe to the channel we’re putting out videos every single week thanks for watching and 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