How to Get a NARCISSIST to LEAVE You ALONE! | Learn how to Free yourself from them!

100 thoughts on “How to Get a NARCISSIST to LEAVE You ALONE! | Learn how to Free yourself from them!

  1. I've learn to build a psycholical force field from people like that and slowly walk away…and then RUN!!!! GET SOME DISTANCE AND CARRY A BIG STICK WITH YOU

  2. My narcissistic is a work colleague who told me to shut up in front of my all of work colleagues. Well I ignored her and someone else piped up and said something funny and we laughed out laughed. I went 1 step further and didn’t react. she hated it. I have no room in my life for crap like that. Your right some days I can deal with it but there one days where it affects me. But I have to be in a low place to accept her crap. But even then I won’t tolerate her.

  3. This helped my entire life in one video 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 thank you ! My ex and my mother didn’t understand my boundaries so I just had to continue to show again and again, I refuse to be abused !

  4. 11:30 But they’re my parents. They are everywhere and I often have to literally hide from them. Not because I wanna party, but because I want some alone time. I recently tried to let them know that I was planning on living on my own in a near future and it felt like I had kidnapped their child with how they reacted. How do I separate from them without reeking havoc?

  5. I think a main thing is that the narcissist is ambivalent regards whether the attention they’re getting is good or bad, as long as they’re getting attention that’s all that matters to them.

  6. Refuse to engage in conversations. Refuse gifts. Refuse to emails. Letters. Likes. Add ons. Everything. Refuse every attempt. No contact. Thats all that works.

  7. I was married for 23 years with evil person The emotional abuse the not start right away he was having problems with his son so everything was about his son he used to come to me screaming instead of talking to me about the problem with his son and he had a evil face about the problem with his son and the beginning of emotional abusing me was really bad he was very evil person and I stay in a marriage because he had Surgeries and his back he had a brain surgery which make him to behave maniac few years into a marriage I saw him taking some pills I asked him where are you taken and his answer was for his body temperature my Doctor giving that to me and I look at the bottle and the The bottle say lithium

    I have no idea about the medication I asked if friend of mine who she is a doctor and she she told me there was antipsychotic medication they give it to bipolar or schizophrenic I talk to her and she say to me looks like he is bipolar final I left him year and a half the divorce is been hell on wheels he’s so evil I do not have children with him thank God I’ve been listening to your videos. I am very strong I didn’t allow him to control me 100% and the harassed has been horrible thank you for your tips

  8. I am grateful for this..I think that once you stop listening and reacting to the narcissist not only will they leave you alone but I believe they cannot do anything but physically leave you for new supply..I think that was the fear I had for so long and was the reason I gave him the supply negative and positive…but now I am ok with him physically leaving so he cant affect me as before..thank you

  9. So true…sometimes it takes a few kind to yourself if you didnt get it the first or second ..or seventh time with these will be victorious!..

  10. I've been lucky in that I have been able to recognize toxicity , even before I knew anything about narcissism, and just remove myself from their life pretty much from the 1st time without any difficulty. I have always just been able to forget someone who treats me badly pretty quick. Too happy and confident to worry about those who decide to try and mess with me for any reason. My problem now is keeping my cat safe while I'm at work until I get a new apartment and escape my current psycho. I got a keyed doorknob for my bedroom to keep my cat safe but she saw that and since the thermostat is in my bedroom she gleefully informed me, upon seeing the new doorknob, that if I forgot to turn the AC off in the morning she would not hesitate to break the lock to get in my room.

  11. Good point about NO energy. They feast on negativity and conflict as well as praise and ass-kissing. Go grey rock and try to remove yourself from their presence as much as is possible. DO NOT ENGAGE.

  12. Great Lyn, God bless
    Very informative video, will try to do this technique see if I can pull it off. Thanks for the recommendation on how to cope with the Narc and toxic people. Many blessings

  13. I have both colleague and boss are narcissist, pretty easy with the colleague just ignore and imagine that this person doesn’t exit. When you have to say hi. Just look above his head not his eyes then you are mostly fine. But this does not work with the boss if you don’t have eye contact. He knows and will rage…

  14. Problem is I'm in court against this person It's a long story. Long story with this one conjugal abuse and 2 kids. I have separated myself, but abuse very difficult I haven't reacted anymore I screamed and swore at my computer to audios I recorded of him to get my anger out to be able to heal and fix myself. A bully and Intimidated It's difficult now I'm feisty. I have my boxing gloves on. Nasty ppl Can't get into it ,but yeah.

  15. This video really hit me hard in my heart. Learning how to accept my husbands narcissistic ex wife is not easy. But, she is there for many more years, as we have to co-parent with her. Regardless of all she has done to me, I am thankful she has hurt me as much as she has, because I have become a better person learning how to deal with evil like her.

  16. That is great information. That this person, unbeknownst to themselves, is helping me to learn all of these things I need to see.

  17. Seeing everyone's story really inspires me to tell mine. I was in emotionally abusive relationship with my ex fiance and at the time I thought I was doing good sending her money to her and her child at a time when she was not living with me and when I finally told her I no longer wanted to be her financial guy she cussed at me and said all kinds of nasty things and try to flip it around like I'm responsible for it it hurted me mentally and I thought that I was nothing until I finally stood up for myself and I got tired of the mental abuse I've been doing with this for 4 years well no more this video really has helped me out I know it'll take time for me cuz I just got out of it so I know it's going to be worth it thank you for sharing this video.

  18. For years we have put up with narcissist behavior from my sister in law and sometimes my mother in law as well but not as severe. Now since my MIL has dementia and deteriorating we have helped as much as we can all the while being verbally abused by my husband's sister. It has gotten really bad that it has caused me anxiety and depression that we recently had to cut out not just my sister in law but now my brother in law and his wife. I am sad and struggle everyday how Fucked up my in laws have become but my husband and I have to think of our sanity and health. With family being abusive it is hard to let go and cut them out but I think eventually it can be done. Like Stephanie said it will take work and keep setting boundaries, it will eventually work.

  19. And soon as a person trys to do all that good stuff to rise up, sometimes they wind up dying or being killed or badly inured. That's not for everyone but, for a lot of people

  20. This may work if they are a lesser narcissist. Mine is wanting a confrontation. Land lords say avoid her. We live in row houses so we share a common wall. Hubby & I cut her off over a year ago. We got security cameras & document all, which she hates. Her older female room mate is getting just like her. No, living next door to a vengeful narc is never ever peaceful. Ever. If I could move, I would.

  21. what if you deal with them with violence , law aside, just staying on topic, since words are not the tool for the job, or are they by knowing the insecurity that makes them a narcissist nice or mean aside only as a tool to make them not want to interact with you

  22. I love this video has helped me so much when feeling vulnerable. Thank you so much Stephanie cx

  23. This is the best advice I've heard yet. Grey rock is just shrinking into yourself and can make you dissociate. This is truly standing in your power.

  24. I like your video thank u you help me a lot Gbu 💔😥🙏 he destroy my emotions and hurt me 😔

  25. Hi good morning i m new and you channel and I like your channel my God thank u Gbu I feel much better today lol 🤗👍

  26. They are skilled individuals…it’s tactics… I was blown away how they are so skilled I’m like wow this isn’t normal

  27. There's a narc in my life who is trying to bully me into accepting his heroism; I want to convince him that I will call him as needed; but right now, he's not in a position to be my hero; because he still needs me to act as his. You might think we could act as a team, and maybe we could have if he weren't so brutally forceful and disrespecful toward my personal process and with his proposals. He seriously needs to stop, drop & roll. I have a case worker & attorney. Yet, this guy thinks he knows more than they, who run my housing program. Plus, I've done this before more calmly before ever meeting him. This guy remembers moving me in a short period of time, but my legal situation was different then from what it has been and from what it presently is. There's no telling this guy anything. I am someone to slam around for him. He has one month to go in order to succeeed for himself, and it may be that he'll have to succeed without my help–although, its a life & death situation for him. I really wanted to see him through, but I do not really feel like I can. I am not confident that others will help-out, as much as he needs them to for re-acquiring his driver's license, truck insurance, and doctor's appointments, too, in the meantime. The people trying to help are more of a hinderence. I don't want to be around some of them invading my personal space & his. He tries to force their "help" onto me, too. I have a family for heaven's sake.

  28. Sometimes when you cut a narc bully off they get mad and become dangerous, it's like their going to make deal with their crap, I'm a man and I'm going threw that now from a childhood friend who I've only helped I've never done anything to hurt him, I very upset with him and I don't fear him but now he's trying to intimidate me which has me thinking of doing violent things to him!

  29. I am an introvert kind. I have very low social skills. It takes a lot interactions for me to open up to some one to have normal conversation. I had roommates before but never faced any problems .My current roommate always tries to insult me and manages to push all my buttons. I get this feeling that he thinks I am inferior to him. I bear through his insults most of the time. Sometimes I get tired and try to say something to him and he creates a huge drama and in the end he makes my other roommates believe that I harassed him; I am very bad at verbal confrontation. whenever I try to respond to his insults he manages to say something to which I don't have a counter . I am planning to find a new place

  30. This message here is, basically, get some self-knowledge. Learn where all your hot buttons are, and learn to identify what you feel like when they are being pressed.

  31. Excellent and meaningful advice. I'm finding it's about what we accept in our lives, our vibrations and our expectations for respect in interactions. Definitely not going down to a low level.

  32. Thank you for your amazing advice. My ex spouse is a narcissist and I have finally freed myself from him and he keeps trying to come back and lie and make up crazy stories about me and it does not even phase me. I mean my heart goes out to him because thats just who I am as a person but I recognize that the behavior on his part is not healthy, its toxic and emotionally draining. His feelings and emotions projected on me are his wounds and aspects of himself that he is not able to face because he is not capable of accepting responsibility of his actions. I will always love him because we share a child together but we cannot be together.

  33. This person is the type of person that will take you to court, get your business license removed, turn can't connections against you, make lies up and worst of all he believes them, twist things to his advantage, makeup stories, become alliances with your enemies and destroy everything in your life. It's giving him everything he wants or losing everything and you can't get rid of these people or kick them out bc they'll leave defaming you, destroying you, filing fake police reports against you, lying at court, acting like a victim even though this person abuses you, and take you to court and turn people against me. I'd be damned for destruction if I tell him to leave when his boss enables his behavior and believes everything he tells her bc she is somewhat similar. And then it's two ladies stressed out and dealing with emotional abuse and being afraid bc with these people they just drain you, bring you problems, so many headaches and it's scary the way they react and how there's nothing you can say or do to defend yourself

  34. very good. pity you feel the need to use the word "sh*t". it does not become you. there are better ways of expressing yourself – try visualising some.

  35. Thank you for your vids/commentaries.

    When one's internal compass has not been programmed correctly from childhood, it's hard to know when your being sucked in by a narc. Especially when you were raised by a narc at some level. Dating a narc …feels familiar. Learn to know yourself.

  36. sutton council put me in a flat on top of a narcissist after my ex narcissist partner made me homeless, she is obsessed, I cannot use my bin, she stands staring at my bedroom window for hours at a time, I watched foxes once when there were cubs so ever since she tries to kill them, she sent a letter saying how she heard me walk across the floor and everything I do all heavily underlined, I was going to be evicted because she continually lied to the council, I had to get my mp involved, no thing happens about my side because its all supposed to be my fault, of course she SCREAMS and RAGES the place down for hours at a time, but a toddler would stop, she doesnt, continually bashes and slaps everything making me jump. Going to the mp was a waste of time, they just decided I have to be subjected to the horror forever, instead of being evicted, because her deranged behaviour is all supposed to be my fault.

  37. Imagine if you were giving this advice to a Narcissist. You're just making it so much worse because it only reinforced that their beliefs must definitely be the right belief. And people who doesn't listen to you deserved to be punished for their action (even if you contributed to their mistake yourself).

  38. This was great. Thank you. I am removing a narcissist from my life right now. No longer speaking anything to him. Total gray rock. It gets scary at times like when he tried cutting me off from getting back to my home the other day. And still afraid to just walk to the post office because of this. I have already told him leave me alone last November. Been enforcing it since by no contact answering the phone or door etc. He no longer affects me other then his what I felt semi aggressiveness to try to block my or cut me off from my home. I have now put locks on all yard gates as he was known to just walk into my yard. Feeling better with the locks even though I hate to feel like I have to live this way. I feel it is sending the message loud and clear with out having to speak.

  39. I need a happy life. I am surrounded on both ends of my family with these people. And I can't get them away in this point in my life. I can only do so much.

  40. I watch your videos over and over and they help me all the time so thanks for sharing your wisdom much appreciated and I love you

  41. have you created a video yet that talks about what narcissist supply actually looks like? It would be helpful to know how we are unconsciously adding to their supply.

  42. Absolutely lovely advice. I just got out of a toxic relationship, and the person wasn't even a narcissist, yet your valuable perspective offered me some nuggets of wisdom that I intend to use to not just move on but grow stronger!

  43. This is so true! Reinvent yourself as a person who does not tolerate and fall for the stupidity. Keep your dignity by not engaging with the narc and having your own life, friends, goals, and responsibilities. Give them no supply or reactions. It will take time for them to get the message of the NEW YOU! But just keep at it and they’ll fall off eventually!

  44. So true. Thank you for sharing.
    It's a healing process. At first being so confused I didn't know what to do, but we do need to allow ourselves to feel, accept, and heal. Once I allowed myself to accept where I now was, all those feelings floating all over could be healed but as long as we remain angry and trying to figure everything out that's where we remain. I'm thankful it happened. If hurting people hurt people, I too was hurting people. Maybe when we get to the bottom we find the way. Maybe once we are broken, we can finally be whole. It's not easy but take courage. One day at a time.

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  46. ruin workplace bullies with cyber-bullying. You have the first amendment. Especially after you do all you can to ignore, be nice and all others yet they succeed in manipulating supervisors and other employees into believing lies about you!!!!!!

  47. Something I'm living and learning you attract what you entertain. When you stop entertaining crazy or evil you stop attracting it to you.

  48. Everyone deserves to not only be free from narcissists, but also know the Truth…

  49. Interesting video however, when your mother is a pathological liar and your wife believes that she has changed its very hard to remove the liar from your life. Sad but true 🤷‍♂️

  50. Hello mam, I am really a great fan of your content and how you are trying to make good people feel great and protecting a rare species on the earth called the "Empaths" which is constantly being preyed by "Naarcissists" and getting near to the brink of extinction. God bless you with loads of happiness! 🙂

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  52. 6:05 we need to stop saying "hurt people, hurt people" because abusers enjoy hurting others and victims of narcissistic abuse are hurt and instead we're here learning how to cope. Abusers hurt people. Period.

  53. Today is his birthday. Today is the first time in 8 years I didn't wish him a happy birthday. If he hasn't noticed I went no contact, he will today. It's strange, but I feel even after everything he did to me, he will be expecting a message from me today. My silence will show him how I feel, and I know it will hurt him somehow. Maybe that's what they call narcissistic injury. Anyway, I'm a bit nervous about this… Ironically, today is also exactly two months of no contact. It's the longest I haven't spoken to him in my life. But no matter how much I'm hurt, deep down inside, I feel that that discard was a chance for me to escape that relationship. And I'm going to use this chance.

  54. I appreciate your wisdom, I really do and I did try theses tactics of not letting them get to me and letting their words roll off my shoulders. I was dealing with my mother-in-law and sister in law. I’ve tried to just be a plant while in their presence but it just didn’t seem to work. It almost seemed like they hated me more for being sooo calm…. Then I got pregnant and very hormonally unbalanced and trust me, I wasn’t taking sh*t from anybody. I unleashed hormonal rage on these women to the point I almost got physical!!! I know that wasn’t the healthiest option especially for my wellbeing and baby but i couldn’t help it!! But it worked!! The next few days they were walking on eggshells around me. I’ve completely cut ties with them and they haven’t bugged me in almost a year. My husband stands behind me 100% and has vowed to protect me from now on from his family. I don’t know what’s going to happen in the future or if they’ll try anything new. But I’ll be ready for battle again if they want some of this

  55. Wow…I needed this message soooooo bad!! This is one if the BEST videos I’ve watched on this subject! Thank you thank you thank you!!!

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