Fears | NoBSCoachingAdvice com

Fears | NoBSCoachingAdvice com


I’m Jeff Altman, The Big Game Hunter. I
initially was called The Big Game Hunter when I did search. I’m a coach now
who helps people with workplace issues– job search hiring more effectively
managing and leading I came in to cross a quote today I thought was wonderful.
Rudyard Kipling. “Of all the liars in the world sometimes the worst are our own
fears Wow fear I know it’s held me back at times I know
it’s provided me with abundant excuses for things I never wind up doing what
about you How does fear rule you? What’s the lie
or what are the lies that fear tells you? why do they get through that’s the fun
question why do they get through I know for myself often the message gets
through because it reinforces a memory I have from when I was much younger that
caused me to probably stop in my tracks because someone I know, someone who I thought loved me, said something harsh to me. Someone who, I thought, cared said something harsh and every parent could have been a friend doesn’t really matter but it gets
through it got through then and the current event kind of links in my
subconscious to that memory you know I’m gonna bring up something quirky I’m
afraid to put contact lenses in my eye. I can’t get my hands up near my eyes.
and the closest thing I have a memory of that is my mother saying keep your
fingers away from your eyes you can go blind! You can go poking an eye out. I’m sure there are things professionally where I’ve hurt
myself from my fear I know I didn’t leave jobs I should have for way too
long a period of time because I was afraid of starting over didn’t want to
do that where does feel rule you and how can you
change a little bit I don’t think I can change the thing about my eyes I have
tried on and off for years to put a lens in my eyes I just can’t do it but some
of the other things I have other things I have like leaving a long career or
moving into coaching changing my hat from one that said Headhunter to Coach, you know and being public about that. that wasn’t so easy but I’ve done it and
I think I’m doing pretty well where could you do it differently
I’m Jeff Albin hope you found this minimally helpful , provoke some thoughts on your part. If you’re interested in my coaching you around any other things I
mentioned early or just making changing your life for that matter you can reach
out to me through my website which is TheBigGameHunter.us. There’s a button on the home page where you can schedule a free discovery call or a coaching session I’d
love to help you by the way I’ve got thousands of posts in my blog there. You
can watch them, listen to them, read them they’ll help you in a variety of
different ways I hope you have a great day and take care

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